Shawn Achor, a leader in the positive psychology field upends the traditional belief that success drives happiness, and instead presents research to demonstrate that happiness drives success.

We have the tendency to want to solve other people’s problems by giving them advice. The truth is, though, that we suck at it. Instead, we should ask the right questions and help them dig down to the real challenge.

We all have pivotal moments that we remember. Some are naturally elevated in our minds; such as a wedding or the birth of a child. Others moments were consciously created; such as a holiday tradition, or an amazing onboarding experience at work.